Parent-Teacher Relationship

At Belle Meade Nursery and Primary School, we often say: “When parents and teachers work together, students win.”
That’s because the connection between home and school has a direct and lasting impact on a child’s academic achievement, emotional wellbeing, and behavior.
In today’s fast-paced world, children thrive best when the two most influential forces in their lives parents and teachers are united in purpose.

Why the Parent-Teacher Relationship Matters

1. Improved Academic Performance Pupils whose parents are involved in their education are more likely to achieve higher grades, stay focused in class, and develop a positive attitude toward learning.

2. Stronger Emotional Support
A child who knows that their teacher and parent are “on the same team” feels more secure, supported, and confident both at home and in the classroom. This gives no room for manipulation, lies etc from a child.

3. Early Detection of Issues
When parents and teachers communicate regularly, challenges—whether academic, social, or behavioral—are spotted and addressed early before they escalate.

4. Better Behavior and Attendance
Engaged parents help reinforce expectations and values from school, which can lead to improved behavior and regular school attendance.

 

What Makes a Healthy Parent-Teacher Relationship?

– Open Communication: Keep in regular contact—don’t wait for a problem to arise.
– Mutual Respect: Acknowledge each other’s roles and expertise.
– Collaboration: Work together toward shared goals for the child.
– Supportive Attitude: Encourage your child to value both their learning and their teacher.
– Attend parent-teacher conferences. Show up for school meetings.
– Celebrate progress and efforts: Let them know you are happy when they win and when they put in the work. Celebrate them always.

 

What Parents Should Avoid in the Parent-Teacher Relationship

While most parents are deeply invested in their child’s success, certain well-meaning actions can
unintentionally harm the partnership. Here are a few things parents should avoid:

1. Don’t Blame the Teacher for Everything
It’s natural to be protective, but it’s important to consider all sides before drawing
conclusions. Approach concerns with curiosity, not accusation.
2. Don’t Rely on the Teacher Alone
Learning continues at home. Reinforce routines, help with homework, and model a positive attitude toward education.
3. Don’t Undermine the Teacher in Front of Your Child
If a child hears negative comments about their teacher, it can damage their respect for authority and disrupt classroom discipline.
4. Don’t Ignore Communication
Read school notices, respond to messages, and attend meetings when possible. Silence can be misinterpreted as disinterest.
5. Don’t Compare Teachers or Children Publicly
Every teacher and student is different. Comparing can create unrealistic expectations and harm relationships.

In conclusion

The parent-teacher relationship is not about being best friends, it’s about being partners. At Belle Meade Nursery and Primary School, we encourage families to build respectful, responsive, and collaborative connections with our teaching team. Together, as a school community we will provide the consistency and care every child needs to reach their full potential.

Have questions or feedback? Join us at our next Parent meeting or drop a comment below.
We’re always here to listen and grow together.